Before I moved here in 2009, I searched online to see what the quality of men were like. I remember emailing this one guy a few times back and forth but when I moved here, he was no longer online.
Well.....here he is again. An early 40 something year old "venture capitalist." We started emailing again and agreed to meet at Ruths Chris for some drinks and apps. Ironically, Ricardo always wanted to take me to Ruths Chris but I told him that will be our celebratory 30 days of no fighting dinner.
I'm still living with Ricardo and he wasn't coming home that night. I used a free coupon to get my hair done that night and looked great with my leggings, heals, and funky/flowy/sleeveless top. This time I did NOT mention Ricardo on the date (or the next 4 or so dates I had with this guy).
"Venturing Out" was definitely quite pleasant to look at and fun to be on dates with but something did not add up. Throughout the few dates that I had he: 1) told me he forgets that he has a match.com account but his profile always says "online now," 2) had to end dates early sometimes to get to his grandmother's house and bring her groceries, 3) didn't have license plates on his new car and was still waiting for them to come in, 4) cancelled several times at the last minute for backaches from working out, 5) lost his phone on a day we were supposed to go see a play and I never heard from him until that evening. OK - something is odd with this duck......
Venturing out helped me venture out....I went on a few dates with him and got myself back in the game. Next.......
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